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Custody in Connecticut is decided in the Superior Court, usually in the Family Division. Most states split the question in two: who makes the big decisions for the child, and what the day to day schedule looks like. Both usually end up written into one order or parenting plan the judge approves.
The wording differs from state to state, so read the official Connecticut documents below rather than assuming a term you heard elsewhere means the same thing here. Courts decide these cases on the best interests of the child, and the official forms are written to collect the facts a judge needs.
Official Connecticut custody resources
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Connecticut family law forms (official index) (Connecticut judicial branch): The official statewide collection of Connecticut family law forms. When a direct document link stops working, this index is where the current version lives. https://www.jud.ct.gov/webforms
Connecticut court self-help resources (Connecticut courts self-help): Official self-help information for people handling their own Connecticut family case, including instructions and plain-language guides. https://www.jud.ct.gov/selfhelp.htm
Connecticut mediation and dispute resolution (Connecticut judicial branch): Official information on mediation and other ways to settle a Connecticut family case without a trial. https://www.jud.ct.gov/external/super/altdisp.htm
Connecticut Judicial Branch E-Services (CT Judicial Branch): E-filing is required for lawyers and optional for people representing themselves. You enroll in E-Services for free, then request electronic access to your case so you can file and view documents online. https://efile.eservices.jud.ct.gov/
Connecticut rules of procedure (Connecticut judicial branch): The court rules that control deadlines, service, and how family cases move in Connecticut. https://www.jud.ct.gov/pb.htm
Verified official Connecticut custody documents
These official documents cover asking for custody, setting a schedule, and putting a parenting plan in front of the judge.
Custody / Visitation Application, Parent (JD-FM-161), form JD-FM-161 (Child Custody / Parenting), official document: https://www.jud.ct.gov/webforms/forms/FM161.pdf
Custody Agreement and Parenting Plan (JD-FM-284), form JD-FM-284 (Child Custody / Parenting), official document: https://www.jud.ct.gov/webforms/forms/FM284.pdf
Official link data for Connecticut was last verified June 2026. Report anything outdated through our contact page and we will re-check the official source.
Family cases in Connecticut are heard in the Superior Court, usually in the Family Division. All family cases are heard in the Superior Court's Family Division. Connecticut has no county courts - cases are organized into judicial districts and family is heard at designated courthouses.
Custody decisions are made on the best interests of the child, not on which parent asks first. Judges look at things like stability, each parent's involvement, the child's needs, and whether a parent supports the child's relationship with the other parent. Read the official Connecticut forms and self-help material for the factors this state asks about.
Many courts send custody disputes to mediation before a hearing, and some require it. The official Connecticut mediation page linked above explains what this state offers and when it applies.
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